若即若離

简 若即若离 · 繁 若即若離
Mandarin · pinyin ruò jí ruò lí

Meanings

  1. lit. seeming neither close nor distant (idiom)
  2. fig. to keep one's distance
  3. (of a relationship) lukewarm
  4. vague
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若
ruò · if, supposing, assuming; similar
即
jí · promptly, quickly, immediately
離
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离
lí · rare beast; strange; elegant
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4–2–4–2 · ruo4 ji2 ruo4 li2

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Rime Cantonese 粵拼

joek6 zik1 joek6 lei4

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  1. (idiomatic) to be neither familiar nor distant; to maintain a lukewarm relationship
  2. (idiomatic) to be unclear; to be vague

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若即若離 · ruo4 ji2 ruo4 li2
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Exact source record若即若離 若即若离 [ruo4 ji2 ruo4 li2] /lit. seeming neither close nor distant (idiom)/fig. to keep one's distance/(of a relationship) lukewarm/vague/