父母之命,媒妁之言

Mandarin · pinyin fù mǔ zhī mìng , méi shuò zhī yán

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  1. (idiom) parents' orders and matchmaker's services (in establishing an arranged marriage)
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父
fù · father; Kangxi radical 88
母
mǔ · mother; female elders; female
之
zhī · marks preceding phrase as modifier of following phrase; it, him her, them; go to
命
mìng · life; destiny, fate, luck; an order, instruction
媒
méi · go-between, matchmaker; medium
妁
shuò · act as go-between
言
yán · words, speech; speak, say; Kangxi radical 149
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父母之命,媒妁之言 · fu4 mu3 zhi1 ming4 , mei2 shuo4 zhi1 yan2
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Exact source record父母之命,媒妁之言 父母之命,媒妁之言 [fu4 mu3 zhi1 ming4 , mei2 shuo4 zhi1 yan2] /(idiom) parents' orders and matchmaker's services (in establishing an arranged marriage)/