小三

Mandarin · pinyin xiǎo sān

Meanings

  1. mistress
  2. the other woman (coll.)
  3. grade 3 in elementary school
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小
xiǎo · small, tiny, insignificant
三
sān · three
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3–1 · xiao3 san1

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siu2 saam1

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noun · Etymology 1

  1. (colloquial, Mainland China) other woman or other man; someone romantically involved with a person already in a committed relationship; mistress

noun · Etymology 2

  1. primary three; third year in primary school; third grade

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