吃人家的嘴軟,拿人家的手短

简 吃人家的嘴软,拿人家的手短 · 繁 吃人家的嘴軟,拿人家的手短
Mandarin · pinyin chī rén jiā de zuǐ ruǎn , ná rén jiā de shǒu duǎn

Meanings

  1. lit. the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, the hand that has received doesn't reach (idiom)
  2. fig. one is partial to those from whom presents have been accepted
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吃
chī · eat; drink; suffer, endure, bear
人
rén · man; people; mankind; someone else
家
jiā · house, home, residence; family
的
de · possessive, adjectival suffix
嘴
zuǐ · mouth, lips
軟
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拿
ná · take, hold, grasp; bring; with
手
shǒu · hand
短
duǎn · short; brief; deficient, lacking
软
ruǎn · soft, flexible, pliable; weak
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hek3 jan4 gaa1 dik1 zeoi2 jyun5, naa4 jan4 gaa1 dik1 sau2 dyun2

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吃人家的嘴軟,拿人家的手短 · chi1 ren2 jia1 de5 zui3 ruan3 , na2 ren2 jia1 de5 shou3 duan3
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Exact source record吃人家的嘴軟,拿人家的手短 吃人家的嘴软,拿人家的手短 [chi1 ren2 jia1 de5 zui3 ruan3 , na2 ren2 jia1 de5 shou3 duan3] /lit. the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, the hand that has received doesn't reach (idiom)/fig. one is partial to those from whom presents have been accepted/