不是冤家不聚頭

简 不是冤家不聚头 · 繁 不是冤家不聚頭
Mandarin · pinyin bù shì yuān jiā bù jù tóu

Meanings

  1. destiny will make enemies meet (idiom)
  2. (often said about lovers who have a disagreement)
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不
bù · no, not; un-; negative prefix
是
shì · indeed, yes, right; to be; demonstrative pronoun, this, that
冤
yuān · grievance, injustice, wrong
家
jiā · house, home, residence; family
聚
jù · assemble, meet together, collect
頭
tóu · head; top; chief, first; boss
头
tóu · head; top; chief, first; boss
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4–4–1–1–4–4–2 · bu4 shi4 yuan1 jia1 bu4 ju4 tou2

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Rime Cantonese 粵拼

bat1 si6 jyun1 gaa1 bat1 zeoi6 tau4

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bat1 si6 jyun1 gaa1 bat1 zeoi6 tau4

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proverb

  1. If you were not destined to be lovers, you would not be together. Those with some kind of connection will be brought together. (often said about lovers who have a disagreement)

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不是冤家不聚頭 · bu4 shi4 yuan1 jia1 bu4 ju4 tou2
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Exact source record不是冤家不聚頭 不是冤家不聚头 [bu4 shi4 yuan1 jia1 bu4 ju4 tou2] /destiny will make enemies meet (idiom)/(often said about lovers who have a disagreement)/